My Grace is Sufficient
Daily Reading: Leviticus 26, Psalm 116, 2 Corinthians 12, Proverbs 26
When doing my reading in 2 Corinthians 12 this morning, I was reminded of this post from over 8 years ago and wanted to share it again eight years later, because God’s grace truly is sufficient.
My son Andrew and daughter Sophie turned 8 and 12 back in February. It was absolutely heart warming this morning reading where my mind and heart were at eight years ago while Andrew was still in the NICU and my wife Naomi still recovering from surgery.
This was not a post originally written with the benefit of hindsight several years later. It was written while still in the midst of chaos and uncertainty.
There is so much power in looking back in life and seeing God moving in hindsight.
God is good.
Original Post from February 23rd, 2018
But the Lord said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10
My grace is sufficient for you.
On Sunday February 11th at 7 PM our family had just wrapped up a birthday party celebrating our amazing daughter Sophie turning 4 years old.
Sophie is a cancer survivor that was diagnosed at just 2 months old with a rare form of cancer, and at this moment, she is nearing 3 years cancer free.
Praise God!
It wasn’t more than 30 minutes after the last guest left that my wife called me upstairs and said we needed to go to the hospital. We were 7 months pregnant and she had started bleeding significantly. We quickly called my parents, who only live a mile away, to come stay with our other three kids as we rushed to the hospital.
The bleeding stopped by the time we got there, but the doctors told us they would be needing to keep Naomi there for observation for 5-7 days. If it started again Naomi’s life and our unborn son’s life would be at risk, and they would do an emergency cesarean section.
After being there several hours, they told me to go home, but to leave my phone on just in case.
90 minutes later, shortly after I had fallen asleep, the phone call came that I was desperately hoping to avoid. Minutes later I was driving as fast as I could back to the hospital, running inside, putting on scrubs, nervously waiting in the hallway, and finally entering the operating room with my wife.
Needless to say, it was an emotional several hours.
That second drive to the hospital at 1:30 AM was the most scared I have ever been.
I threw out a group text at 8:08 PM when we were first heading to the hospital to a group of men that I do life with. Christian brothers in arms ready to go to battle with me and for me.
The prayers began.
These are the moments earlier in my life where I would have waited until I knew more before sharing what was happening with anyone in my life.
“No point in worrying everyone. What if it is nothing? How will I look if I am just scared over something minor? Besides, they are busy, and I don’t want to burden them with something that might ultimately be no big deal.”
Lies crafted by an enemy with centuries of practice.
Satan wants us to do life alone. He wants you to believe that you are a burden to others, that no one really cares, that you are strong enough in your own power, and the power of prayer isn’t real anyway.
It isn’t until those moments in life where you have a child diagnosed with cancer, a wife being rushed into an emergency surgery, an infant taken up to the NICU, or any other extreme life event completely out of your control; that you realize what a complete illusion “control” is.
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
God has blessed our family with a fair amount of worldly success. We have an amazing family, I run a successful company, and we have incredible friends. By lots of worldly standards, we are a success story.
Rarely has any of our worldly success given us the ability to minister to others and speak about God’s glory in the same way we have been able to because of Sophie’s cancer.
Already, in just a short week and a half after Naomi’s emergency surgery with Andrew still in the NICU, I believe that the experience spanning February 11th-12th has already allowed us to give glory to God more than any career accomplishment ever could.
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
Naomi is recovering well from her surgery. Andrew, as of Feb 23rd, is still in the NICU and will most likely remain there for another week or two. However, he is moving in the right direction faster than we could have hoped for.
God is good.
However, God is not just good because of this individual result.
When I sat outside the operating room while they prepped Naomi my prayer over and over again was, “You are a good God. You are a good good father. Regardless of the outcome, I know this to be true.” I prayed that same prayer when we first got the news with Sophie.
God already knows this. This prayer was not him. It was a prayer necessary for my own heart.
In a perfect world, I would rather not have our newborn need to spend the first 3-4 weeks of his life in the NICU.
I would prefer his sisters (who are super excited to meet their baby brother!) not have to wait a month to meet the newest addition to our family because kids under 18 are not allowed in the NICU.
I wish everything had gone beautifully according to plan.
Our plan.
However, Paul said it perfectly today:
“Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”
We have always said as a family that we want to live out James 1:2-4 when James wrote:
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
We decided about five months ago that our son’s middle name would be James in honor of this book in the Bible. We never expected he would live into his name so quickly!
However, we are doing our best to consider it pure joy.
I know this trial will be far from the last we will face as a family as we journey through life, and this one is still not yet over, but his grace is sufficient and his power is made perfect in our weakness.
Daily Reflection & Dialogue
When are examples in your life where God’s power has been made perfect in your weakness? Where have you had the opportunity to minister to others because of challenges in your life?
